On Why: The Third Date Rule is Outdated

We’ve all heard it. I’m sure you’ve heard it. You may have even said it. “Don’t sleep with him on the first date.” Or maybe you have a third, fourth, or fifth date rule yourself. I’ve never understood this. It never aligned with any of my other beliefs about dating, sex, and feminism. If youContinue reading “On Why: The Third Date Rule is Outdated”

6 Feminist Principles Your Relationship Needs

  Everything in a relationship doesn’t need to be “equal”. There no keeping score. There’s no required reciprocity. Reciprocity itself is incredibly important, but it should be selflessly motivated. Not prompted based on guilt of what the other person has previously done or in anticipation of what they may do. BDSM, when practiced correctly, canContinue reading “6 Feminist Principles Your Relationship Needs”

The Women’s March

“When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty.” Thomas Jefferson   The day was full of jammed phone lines, chants of “No more hate, no more fear, refugees are welcome here”, and an incredible showing of womxn, allies, second and third-wave feminists, and pure love in the face of hate. 500,000 of us stood together toContinue reading “The Women’s March”