On Loving: How to Meet Someone Without Swiping Right

While sometimes I feel like the times of getting “set up” and meeting people out in the real world are behind us, those days are definitely NOT behind us. If they are then how are middle schoolers still falling in love with their classmates? (Trust me, they are. I get the DMs.) Meeting someone inContinue reading “On Loving: How to Meet Someone Without Swiping Right”

Dear Molly, How Do I Tell My Friend She’s Changing For Her Boyfriend?

I feel like my best friend is constantly changing for the guy she’s dating. Like if he’s super into football, she starts a fantasy league, if he likes Italian food she’s making homemade pasta. She throws herself into so many new hobbies and things for each guy within the first few weeks of dating andContinue reading “Dear Molly, How Do I Tell My Friend She’s Changing For Her Boyfriend?”

Simple Loving: What Being in the Wrong Relationship Taught Me

  We’ve all witnessed our friends in bad relationships and thought the same thing: that will never be me. I was exactly that person. I thought I was someone who would walk away the second a relationship went south and if you would have told me that I would be in the wrong relationship forContinue reading “Simple Loving: What Being in the Wrong Relationship Taught Me”

Dear Molly, Why Is He Treating Me Like This?

I feel like I’m in an episode of Sex and the City, so I figured I’d ask Carrie Bradshaw 😂 I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over two months and things are going pretty good. The first two and half weeks were great, no red flags, no weird behavior, and then nothing. Like heContinue reading “Dear Molly, Why Is He Treating Me Like This?”

Dear Molly, I Agreed to a Date I Don’t Want to Go On.

I don’t know why I said yes, but I did and now I have a date scheduled for next week and I don’t want to go on it. How do I let him down easy?   Things like this happen in the dating world. They happen a lot. Saying “no” in the moment isn’t aContinue reading “Dear Molly, I Agreed to a Date I Don’t Want to Go On.”

Dear Molly, Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

My boyfriend cheated on me and I don’t know what to do. That’s really all I have. I don’t even really have a question, I just don’t know what to do. Do you think once a cheater always a cheater? I don’t know if I can trust him anymore.   Most people think that someoneContinue reading “Dear Molly, Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?”

On Why: The Third Date Rule is Outdated

We’ve all heard it. I’m sure you’ve heard it. You may have even said it. “Don’t sleep with him on the first date.” Or maybe you have a third, fourth, or fifth date rule yourself. I’ve never understood this. It never aligned with any of my other beliefs about dating, sex, and feminism. If youContinue reading “On Why: The Third Date Rule is Outdated”

make believe: a clean break {Four Things to Help You Find Post-Breakup Closure}

  Even if you’ll later say that you saw it coming, nearly all breakups catch us off-guard. When that heart-wrenching moment happens to you it’s time to start looking forward, put the past in the past, and process through the pain. Personally, I thrive off of taking a step back and looking at the relationshipContinue reading “make believe: a clean break {Four Things to Help You Find Post-Breakup Closure}”

Dear Molly, The guy I’m dating is pulling away. How do I keep him without being needy?

I started dating this guy a few weeks ago and at first everything was going super well. There wasn’t any weird “who is texting first” thing. There wasn’t any force conversation. It all felt so natural like we’d been friends for a long time. We went on around 10 dates, all good – I thinkContinue reading “Dear Molly, The guy I’m dating is pulling away. How do I keep him without being needy?”

Dear Molly, I’m In Love with My Best Friend and He’s Dating Someone Else.

Okay. So here is it: I really like my best friend and he’s dating someone. We are best friends, talk all the time, we met about a year ago and lately, it just feels different. I definitely didn’t intend on this but I’m pretty sure I want to be with him and I think heContinue reading “Dear Molly, I’m In Love with My Best Friend and He’s Dating Someone Else.”