Dear Molly, How Do I Become a Better Big Sister?

Hi! A few weeks ago my sister started sending me your posts and blog stories. I’m glad she did because I think you have so many good insights and thoughts, but it also hurt my feelings because she’s my younger sister and she’s going online looking at “big sister” blogs instead of coming to me.Continue reading “Dear Molly, How Do I Become a Better Big Sister?”

Dear Molly, My Best Friend is Blowing Me Off for Her New Boyfriend.

My best friend started dating someone new a few weeks ago and since then I feel like I never see her. She’s blown me off for HH several times, she’s missing our weekly SoulCycle class, and I know it’s because she’s spending all her time with him. We’re actually roommates and she spends maybe threeContinue reading “Dear Molly, My Best Friend is Blowing Me Off for Her New Boyfriend.”

Dear Molly, The guy I’m dating is pulling away. How do I keep him without being needy?

I started dating this guy a few weeks ago and at first everything was going super well. There wasn’t any weird “who is texting first” thing. There wasn’t any force conversation. It all felt so natural like we’d been friends for a long time. We went on around 10 dates, all good – I thinkContinue reading “Dear Molly, The guy I’m dating is pulling away. How do I keep him without being needy?”

Dear Molly, I’m In Love with My Best Friend and He’s Dating Someone Else.

Okay. So here is it: I really like my best friend and he’s dating someone. We are best friends, talk all the time, we met about a year ago and lately, it just feels different. I definitely didn’t intend on this but I’m pretty sure I want to be with him and I think heContinue reading “Dear Molly, I’m In Love with My Best Friend and He’s Dating Someone Else.”

Dear Molly, He Is EVERYTHING, is he playing me?

Okay girl, here’s the deal. I really like this guy. And when he pops up he is EVERYTHING I want. He’s funny and clever and incredibly smart. The issue is that he doesn’t pop up too often and when he does we talk for a little bit and then end up sexting. I don’t mind,Continue reading “Dear Molly, He Is EVERYTHING, is he playing me?”

Dear Molly, I feel directionless. How do I find my “north”?

I feel like I’m just floating around in life and have no idea where I’m headed. I’d like to have more of a “north”, like a calling. But I don’t know how to find that…   When I have moments of “Where am I headed?” (like we all do) I have two prompts that IContinue reading “Dear Molly, I feel directionless. How do I find my “north”?”

Dear Molly, What Can I Do To Make More Friends?

So today I was hanging around at these cliffs by the lake I live near with a couple of close friends. About an hour into the day some of their friends showed up unexpectedly and both of the guys I had gone there with sorta just left me and the new dudes weren’t exactly ~hospitable~Continue reading “Dear Molly, What Can I Do To Make More Friends?”

Dear Molly, I Don’t Want to Be a Quitter.

Why do I always give up on things I was once so excited about? It feels like the second something gets difficult or doesn’t go my way, I give up. It’s become a running joke of how much a quitter I am. I know it’s a confidence issue, but how do I fix this?  Continue reading “Dear Molly, I Don’t Want to Be a Quitter.”

Dear Molly, How do you feel beautiful when you barely feel pretty?

Some days I feel really special and beautiful and other days I barely want to look at myself because I don’t feel pretty. I guess what I’m asking is, how can you feel beautiful when you barely feel pretty? How can you change your thinking like that?   Feeling beautiful and feeling pretty are notContinue reading “Dear Molly, How do you feel beautiful when you barely feel pretty?”

Dear Molly, I want to meet someone organically, how do I date outside of apps?

You mentioned once that you wouldn’t want to date through apps, but how do you do that? I hate dating apps, but I never meet people organically? Should I ask my friends to set me up? Sometimes I feel like the times of getting “set up” and meeting people out in the real world areContinue reading “Dear Molly, I want to meet someone organically, how do I date outside of apps?”